Is there anyone that knows that you’re an ageplayer? Would you tell any of your closest friends?
My best friend already knows, I told her about it a year ago on the phone. You can see that story here.
The second person to know is one of my three close guy friends that I refer to as "bro". He's a mutual friend of Daddy and I and He's actually a Daddy Dom. I don't remember ever straight up telling Him, He and His ex babygirl started following me when I first made my D/s Tumblr. I go to Him when I run into issues or need a second opinion and He comes to me when He needs advise, vanilla or not.
Then another bro of mine knows. I don't remember telling him either, just one day gave him that Tumblr because I was on it more than my original one and he started following me. He's never questioned my interest or even brought up the subject but as far as I know, it's never made him uncomfortable.
An old high school buddy, who also happens to be an ex, knows too. He's known from the beginning about it and various other kinks. He was the first person I know in real life to actually know about my kinky side and it was cool because he was kinky too. Unfortunately we've grown apart since then.
The next three people are more real life friends from a fashion community I'm part of and they found out by chance.
The first one to find out actually came across my Tumblr... I'm not sure how but she did. She sent me an anonymous message telling me that she was pretty sure she knew who I was and also confessed that she too is a little (not sure if she's a little into ageplay though). Considering I have a tracker on my blog, I was able to tell the relative area of the message sender and narrowed my guess down to her and another girl. She actually came off anon and told me who she was. Since then we've lightly discussed it on Facebook but not too much. I'd like to offer her guidance in finding a Daddy in the future.
The next two are actually a couple. They do solo and couple camshows together and one day they came across a recording of one my shows on an imageboard. They sent me a message saying that we needed to talk and they told me what happened and confessed that they did shows too. Thankfully I felt same with them knowing this and while hanging out with them for a few days I confessed that I was an ageplayer a babygirl submissive. They don't have a great understanding of D/s relationships aside from how you would see it portrayed in porn. They've kept my secret and I've kept theirs.
With all that being said, am I careful about who I let know? Yes, I'm not the type of person who intends to shove my sexual interests in other people's faces; it's rude because not everyone shares those interests. I'm also afraid of scaring people off or making them feel uncomfortable around me. I know a lot of girls in my community look down on ageplayers because they assume that it's all AB/DL, which is not true. I'm content with those who know already and unless I found more openly kinky friends, I don't believe I'd share it.