Sunday, September 1, 2013

Disclaimer

After reading Blogger's ToS, I've come to realize that from the looks of a viewer not familiar with the DD/lg dynamic, this blog looks like it breaks a lot of the rules. I'd like to start off by saying that this blog is run by a consenting adult (I'm 20). I have been in a D/s relationship with my 22 year old boyfriend since February 2011. Yes, I do call my boyfriend "Daddy" but we have no sort of shared family relations and do not condone incest. He is called "Daddy" because that's the title I chose to call Him as a Dom, of course you might see me refer to Him as other titles in my writings. While the name seems to give off bad connotations, I assure you that it's not as bad as it sounds.

In the world of D/s relationships, Doms and subs have different titles, sometimes depending on the dynamic. While most people are familiar with Master/slave, there is a gentler dynamic and that is DD/g. DD/lg stands for Daddy Dom and little girl. Do not be fooled by the name though, it is not gender specific, there are Mommies and little boys as well.

The role of a Daddy is much like any other Dom, to help His sub grow and care for her but he does hold some special roles too. Daddies play more of a parental role; their goals are to guide, protect, nuture, and love their little. They will spoil their little by tending to her inner child. Each Daddy is as special and different as His little girl, some are sadistic or treat their little slightly differently than what’s mentioned. That’s okay too. It is a common misconception that littles have “daddy issues”. While a Daddy is known for His parental role, He does not take the role of a true father figure that is in His sub’s life.

In the dynamic ageplay may or may not be involved. Non-ageplay littles tend to share a relationship with their Daddy that is full of TLC (and what’s mentioned above) to feed the inner child, though the sub does not act out as a child. In ageplay the little actually does take on a little persona and will roleplay as if she were that age. It can range anywhere from simply wanting to look slightly younger, like a cute dress and pig tails, to wanting a pacifier and coloring books. Each little is different and has her own interests. From there the Daddy takes on His role and acts accordingly, depending on the age, she may need more structure, guidance, and attention than others. It is not uncommon for a Daddy to establish rules to teach His little girl and keep her in line.

Please note that the DD/lg dynamic has nothing to do with pedophilia. We do not condone the acts of pedophilia and the exploitation of children in any way. Just as adults like to take on other roles in the bedroom such as nurse, pet, porn star, etc. it is all roleplay; that is the same for ageplay. The DD/lg dynamic is like any other aspect of BDSM - it is safe, sane, and consensual. Those who participate in the dynamic should be not be shamed for doing so.

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