I've been getting this question asked a lot, it's time that I address it.
I am not looking for a specific gender - male, female, or trans is
fine by me. Please note that while I am bisexual, I much more attracted
to women for a romantic relationship than men, but I have no problem
having a male sub, this is because the idea of humiliating, degrading, and fulfilling my sadistic urges amuses me and turns me on.
At the moment I can not offer a live-in D/s dynamic or 24/7,
this is because of my living situation and I am not looking to relocate
for anyone except My Daddy. But I will not limit it to online only, I am
fine with meeting you in a public place, perhaps at a munch hosted by my local BDSM community.
I want someone who is honest and serious. I believe that honesty
in any sort of relationship is very important but especially in
romantic and D/s ones. I want someone that I can know on a personal
level or even a friendship level and that understands that I am not
looking for a quick thrill or to sate your quick thrill*; I want to
explore My side and yours as well. I want you to trust Me before I can
even consider ownership. A D/s dynamic is nothing without trust.
Submission is a gift given through trust and even love, do not give it
so easily because it can be taken advantage of; it's not safe.
I do not want someone that has no limits. It's
fine if you're not sure if something is a hard limit of yours or not,
but to tell me that you have no limits is ridiculous. I will not take
someone who has no concern for their own well-being or safety. Please
realize that I am still learning what interests me as a Domme, I have
many interests as a submissive but some of those do not apply to both
sides. I am fairly open to kinks, and you have one that is not listed on
my profile, talk to me about it and we can come to some sort of
*If you're looking for a quick thrill in terms of having me
control you, humiliate you, degrade you, give you assignments, tasks,
etc. then that is fine. Just realize that some sort of payment would be
nice. Please message me to discuss what you're looking for and to find
out what I'm comfortable or uncomfortable with.